Someone is trying to steal my best friend or steal me from her!
Okay guys I just really, REALLY need to vent. I have a best friend I've been bff's with for years. There's this other girl who seems obsessed with separating us! She takes any chance she gets to either interrupt our private conversations and lead one of us somewhere else and talk to one of us alone. My best friend and I have discussed this and we're both annoyed. This girl refers to both of us as her "best friends" when we repeatedly told her NO. For example, one day on a field trip, my best friend and I had plans to sit next to each other. We did. When we went in the museum and were lining up to go back into the bus, she says to me "I don't know why, but I really feel like sitting with you!" I straight up told her "No." that's it. She tried to make me feel sympathy by making this sad face. But it doesn't work! My best friend and I have told her a million times to back off and that we're not interested, but she completely ignores it. It's ticking me off. It's like she's a predator trying to lure one of us to her den, and then she'll sink her teeth into us. We've confronted her and told her to stop, she doesn't care. Once, my best friend, the girl, and I (along with a few other people) were put into a social studies group together. While we were doing work, she was fooling around. She even asks me to braid my hair no matter how many times I tell her NO! And then, I KID YOU NOT, she tried to SIT on me as an act of "friendship". She was leaning on my arm that I recently got a shot on and was still stiff. And I was yelling (not too loudly, we were in class) at her to get off because she was physically hurting me. But what my best friend said was awesome (this is why I like her). She told her "If you won't mind, get off my best friend so you can do your designated work, because we're doing a group project and I don't want to fail." (THE SASSIEST OF COMEBACKS OH MY GOD THANK YOU.) She got off of me (my arm was hurting like she stabbed me) and glared at my best friend. I responded by glaring at her (DON'T DISRESPECT MY BFF), and in return she gave us both a big smile. She then proceeded to CONTINUE to fool around. My bff and I ended up doing all the work and she took all the credit. It also seems like it's her MISSION to copy everything we do. My friend and I both gave each other nicknames based on our favorite fruits (Watermelon and Strawberry). Then, one day she decided to interrupt our conversation and say "I'm Rasberry now!" She stole our idea, and after she did that she decided to TELL EVERYONE SHE KNEW that she was "Rasberry." Our school also has something called "Twin Day," where we pair up with our best friends and wear the same exact clothes so it looks like we're twins. My best friend and I already made plans. But one day, the girl decides to ask me "are you twinning with someone for twin day?" and I told her that I was twinning with my best friend. She proceeded to stare at me throughout the day. Also, my best friend and I sit at the same table during class. While we're trying to pay attention to the lesson, she looks at us and makes faces at us. My best friend and I made a procedure that when she does this, we just look straight over her head and ignore. It's SO ANNOYING! Another story: My best friend and I share the storage under our desk. We have a thing in our school called Specials where second period we go to another place in the school to have a separate class (Art, Health, Theatre, etc.). They were holding Technology in our classroom because they were using the computer lab for testing. My best friend and I came back and found out that her, along with another friend, rifled through our desk! Signs- #1 Our other friend left her sweatshirt on my bff's chair, which means SHE was sitting there. #2 The girl left her pencil in the desk, which meant that she was sitting there AND that she was IN OUR DESK. We saw that everything there was in a different order. I'm also scared because I made a code for my best friend and I to pass notes to each other in, and I left it in the desk, which means she probably saw it and might start decoding our notes! IT'S SO FRUSTRATING! We tell her NO, We tell her STOP IT, We tell her WE'RE NOT INTERESTED, she continues to IGNORE and attack us. She keeps telling me "Your hair is so pretty!" "Can I braid it?", when I tell her NO! NO NO NO A MILLION TIMES NO! [Report]